In this republished conversation from the Great Catholic Parishes podcast, I join host John Poitevent to unpack why this simple shift lies at the very heart of parish renewal. People don’t grow because we tell them to—they grow because someone offers friendship, listens without judgment, and walks with them patiently. I unpack how accompaniment transforms not just individuals but the entire culture of a parish, unlocking a sense of belonging that leads people to recognize that God sees them the same way. Together, John and I try to paint a hopeful picture of what becomes possible when a parish truly commits to walking with people in love…and how everything can change from there.

[03:31] Defining Missionary Disciples
[08:43] Why Write Clear Path
[13:14] Four Stage Pathway
[16:44] Safe Questions Culture
[20:06] Belong Believe Become
[22:53] Clarity Over Programs
[27:37] Ministry Mapping Method
[30:24] Ministry Mapping Epiphanies
[32:16] Change Management Basics
[33:15] Thresholds Game and Trust
[34:59] Discernment Rosary Method
[38:12] Adult Formation Priority
[43:45] Making Formation Accessible
[49:08] Rapid Fire Q and A
[50:09] Sports Sidelines Mission Field
[55:05] Listen to Parents Needs
[57:18] Final Encouragement and Sendoff

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To watch the original interview, check out John’s YouTube channel.

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Editor: Taylor Schroll (ForteCatholic.com)